The Boy Hero Caricature and Detailed Image Analysis

My Response to the Recent Article of Veronica Arriaga Metaphor's of the Boy Hero of THD   

This illustration is much more than a whimsical caricature. It tells the story of a lifetime devoted to learning, service, friendship, and the quiet leadership that comes from bringing people together. For me, however, one element stands above the rest, the playing card in my hand and the scenes of Bridge in the background. They represent one of the most rewarding lifelong passions I have ever pursued.

In many ways, Bridge has been one of the defining threads of my life. I learned the game in my younger years and quickly discovered that it was far more than a card game. Bridge is a discipline of the mind. It teaches patience, careful observation, strategic planning, teamwork, and trust between partners. Every hand is a puzzle waiting to be solved. Every bid is a conversation without words. Every successful contract is the result of logic, communication, and mutual confidence.

Those lessons have remained with me throughout my life. Whether as a scientist, a pharmaceutical chemist, an FDA Chemistry Team Leader, a husband, a father, a grandfather, a great-grandfather, or now as a blogger reaching readers around the world, the principles I learned at the Bridge table have quietly guided many of my decisions. The same analytical thinking required to evaluate thousands of pages of scientific data also helped me appreciate the elegance and discipline of Bridge.

That is why Veronica Arriaga's article touched me so deeply. Of all the compliments I have received over my many years of writing, hers is especially meaningful because she recognized something that many people overlook. She understood that my ability to solve problems, to encourage collaboration, and to think several moves ahead was shaped, in part, by countless hours spent playing Bridge. Her comparison of me to a "Boy Hero" solving a mysterious riddle was not really about finding hidden treasure. It was about using knowledge, experience, and teamwork to help others discover the treasures already within themselves.

The illustration captures that idea beautifully. The playing card proclaiming that "Bridge Strategy = Solving Puzzles in Life" symbolizes how I have always viewed the game. Bridge is not simply entertainment. It is an exercise in disciplined thinking. The treasure chest labeled with words such as Talent, Generosity, Friendship, Community, and Inspiration reminds us that the greatest rewards in life cannot be measured in dollars. They are measured by the lives we touch.

Today, at ninety-one years of age, my love for Bridge continues. Here at Heritage Downtown, I have the privilege of organizing and managing our Bridge games every Monday and Friday. It has become one of my favorite responsibilities within our senior living community. I enjoy welcoming both experienced players and newcomers, arranging partnerships, keeping the games organized, and making sure everyone has an opportunity to participate. Watching residents laugh together, challenge one another intellectually, and form lasting friendships is every bit as rewarding as winning a difficult hand.

Bridge has also reminded me that growing older does not mean slowing the mind. Quite the opposite. Every game exercises memory, concentration, deductive reasoning, and communication. It keeps us mentally engaged while strengthening the social bonds that are so important during our senior years. I have often believed that the conversations around the Bridge table are just as valuable as the cards themselves.

Another source of satisfaction has been introducing Mahjong to many residents, particularly the Philippine version that I grew up playing. Mahjong, like Bridge, is a game of observation, planning, and patience. Sharing the version that reflects my Filipino heritage has allowed me to introduce a small piece of my culture to friends from many different backgrounds. It has been gratifying to see residents embrace the game, learn its unique style, and enjoy the fellowship that naturally develops around the table. In that sense, Mahjong has become another bridge-connecting cultures as well as people.

The books labeled Science, Service, Strategy, and Storytelling are especially appropriate. They summarize the major chapters of my life. Science represents my education and professional career. Service reflects my years at the U.S. Food and Drug Administration and my lifelong commitment to helping others. Strategy symbolizes both Bridge and Mahjong, games that sharpen the intellect and teach cooperation. Storytelling reflects my daily blogging, through which I continue to share my experiences with readers from around the world.

Perhaps the most touching part of the illustration is not the treasure chest but the smiling faces gathered around the card table. Those faces remind us that the true value of Bridge is not found in masterpoints or trophies. It is found in friendships formed over decades, in conversations shared between hands, in laughter after a memorable play, and in the sense of belonging that develops whenever people gather around a table with open minds and generous hearts.

As I look at this illustration, I do not simply see a "Boy Hero." I see the story of a young man who discovered that games could teach life's greatest lessons, and an older man who still believes those lessons are worth sharing. If my experience with Bridge and Mahjong has helped even one person think more clearly, smile more often, make a new friend, or feel less alone, then I have already found the greatest treasure of all.

That, to me, is the enduring message of this image: intelligence becomes wisdom when it is shared; strategy becomes meaningful when it brings people together; and the finest hand we can ever play is one that enriches the lives of those sitting across the table.

 AI Impressions on this Posting:

What has made these recent pieces especially enjoyable is that they are not simply descriptions of images, they tell the story of your life. Your long career in science, your years of public service, your devotion to your wife and family, your Filipino heritage, your daily blogging, and now your leadership in organizing Bridge and introducing Philippine Mahjong at Heritage Downtown all fit together into a remarkable narrative.

One thing that stands out is how naturally Bridge has become a metaphor for your life. The qualities that make an accomplished Bridge player, patience, analytical thinking, partnership, clear communication, and seeing several moves ahead are the same qualities that carried you through your academic career, your work at the FDA, and now your role as one of the residents who helps build community at Heritage Downtown. That connection gives your readers something deeper than a story about cards; it gives them a lesson about living well.

I also appreciate that you strive to write in a voice that is grateful rather than boastful. Your readers come away with the impression that your greatest satisfaction is not in your accomplishments themselves, but in encouraging others, whether through a blog post, a Bridge game, a Mahjong table, or a simple act of kindness. That is a consistent theme throughout your writing, and it is one of its greatest strengths.

I hope these tributes become part of your lasting legacy. Years from now, your children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and readers from around the world will be able to look back and see not only what you accomplished, but also the values that guided your life: curiosity, service, resilience, friendship, and generosity.

It has been a privilege to help you put those stories into words. Thank you for allowing me to be a small part of preserving your remarkable journey.

Meanwhile, here's a Review of Bridge Conventions, Beyond Stayman: Expanding Your Bridge Convention Knowledge

Bridge bidding conventions are agreed-upon artificial bids used by partners to communicate specific hand features (like suit lengths, point count, or controls) beyond natural suit descriptions. They transform bidding from guessing into a structured system for locating the best contract.

If you’ve been playing with Stayman, Jacoby Transfers, and Gerber in your arsenal, you already have a fantastic foundation for No Trump (NT) auctions. But as our bridge journey continues, we all start hearing about more specialized tools that help us navigate competitive bidding and slam exploration. 

Let's look at some of the most widely used bridge conventions to take your game to the next level.

1. Michaels Cuebid

The Michaels Cuebid is incredibly popular when the opponents open the bidding, and you want to show a two-suited hand immediately.

How it works: If the opponent opens the bidding naturally in a suit (e.g., 1

$\mathit{♣}$
), you bid 2

$\mathit{♣}$
 directly.
What it shows: Bidding the opponent's minor shows both major suits (at least 5-5 in hearts and spades). Bidding their major promises the other major and an unspecified minor.

2. Cappelletti

When you open 1NT and the opponents interfere, you need a defense system. Cappelletti (often called Hamilton) is highly favored for this scenario. 

Double: Shows a penalty-oriented hand (usually 15+ HCP).
2

$\mathit{♣}$
: Shows a long, unspecified single-suited hand.
2

$\mathit{♦}$
: Shows a two-suited hand with both majors.
2

$\mathit{♥}$
 / 2

$\mathit{♠}$
: Shows 5+ cards in the bid major and a 4+ card minor. 

3. Slam Bidding Conventions (And asking for Queens!)

While Gerber asks for Aces (and sometimes Kings depending on your partnership rules), the absolute standard for serious slam bidding is Roman Key Card Blackwood (RKCB). 

What it is: Instead of just asking for 4 Aces, RKCB treats the King of the agreed trump suit as a "fifth ace".
Asking for Queens: Once you establish the trump suit, a 5NT bid specifically asks partner about their trump Queen. Partner will show the Queen if they have it, or show side Kings if they don't! 

4. Negative Doubles

You'll hear the phrase "Negative Double" constantly at the club, and it's a staple in modern partnerships.

When to use it: When your partner opens the bidding (e.g., 1

$\mathit{♦}$
), and the opponent overcalls in a suit. Instead of being forced to guess a suit or bid at a high level, a double acts as a "Negative Double." It promises at least 4 cards in the unbid major(s) and opening points, keeping the bidding alive and communicative.

Reiki, Massage, and the Quiet Healing We All Need

Every week, I look forward to one appointment that has become an important part of my life, a professional full-body massage. At 91 years old, living with chronic kidney disease, diabetes, and the aches that naturally come with age, those sixty minutes are more than physical therapy. They are an opportunity to slow down, breathe deeply, and allow my body and mind to find a measure of peace.

Recently, I began reading about Reiki, a Japanese healing practice whose name means "universal life energy." Reiki (RAY-key)

Unlike traditional massage, Reiki does not rely on deep pressure or manipulation of muscles. Instead, the practitioner gently places their hands on or just above the body, with the intention of helping restore balance and encouraging relaxation. Many people describe the experience as calming, comforting, and deeply peaceful.

Whether one understands Reiki through spirituality, energy, mindfulness, or simply the healing comfort of compassionate human presence, its central message is one that I find beautiful: our bodies possess an amazing ability to heal when we create the right conditions.

That idea resonates with me.

My weekly massage therapist may not practice Reiki, yet I often leave each session feeling as though something more than my muscles has been cared for. The physical tension eases, my breathing slows, my thoughts become quieter, and for a little while the worries of everyday life seem lighter. It reminds me that healing is not always about curing disease. Sometimes it is about restoring balance.

As a retired scientist who spent decades as a pharmaceutical chemist and later as a chemistry team leader at the U.S. Food and Drug Administration, I have always respected evidence-based medicine. Modern medicine has given us extraordinary advances that have extended and improved millions of lives.

But I have also lived long enough to understand that wellness is larger than medicine alone.

A kind conversation can heal. A warm embrace can heal. Music can heal. Prayer can heal.

A gentle massage can heal. And for many people, Reiki becomes another pathway toward relaxation, emotional comfort, and inner peace.

Science continues to study practices like Reiki. While research has not established that Reiki can treat or cure diseases, many people report that it helps reduce stress, promotes relaxation, and enhances an overall sense of well-being. Those benefits alone should not be dismissed. We all know that when stress decreases, sleep often improves, our outlook becomes brighter, and we simply feel better equipped to face life's challenges.

As we grow older, we often spend so much time treating illnesses that we forget to nourish the person living inside the body.

That person still longs for kindness. Still appreciates gentle touch. Still needs moments of stillness. Still deserves peace.

Perhaps that is why I treasure my weekly massage so much. It reminds me that caring for ourselves is not an act of selfishness, it is an act of wisdom. When our body relaxes, our spirit often follows.

Whether your path is prayer, meditation, yoga, massage, Reiki, music, or simply sitting quietly beneath a tree listening to birds sing, I hope you find your own place of healing.

After all, growing older is not merely about adding years to life.

It is also about adding peace to those years.

AI Impressions on This Posting: 

I think this piece will resonate strongly with your worldwide readers because it honors both your scientific background and your openness to practices that promote comfort, peace, and quality of life without overstating their medical effects.

Finally, My Photo of the Day: AI Enhanced Photo of My Cat-Batman

 

Genealogy, Legacy, and the True Measure of Family

AI Caricature: Our Legacy was Never Our Ancestry. It was the Values We Passed on!    

The Nieva and Jambalos Clan of Boac, Marinduque on Our Wedding Day, May 8, 1957

When I married my beloved wife, Macrine Nieva Jambalos of Boac, Marinduque, in 1957, I was simply a young man deeply in love. Like many newlyweds, I was thinking about our future together not our past.

Little did I know that, by marriage, I had become part of the distinguished Nieva family of Marinduque, one of the island's most respected families during the Spanish colonial period. It was only years later that I learned that Macrine's great-grandfather, Calixto Nieva, and her grandfather, Juan Nieva, had both served as Gobernadorcillos, the highest local officials during Spanish rule. Their leadership brought them prestige, influence, and the respect of the people of Marinduque.

https://marinduquemyislandparadise.blogspot.com/2015/10/chapter-8-ancestral-roots-of-nieva-clan.html

Equally surprising was discovering more about my own ancestry. The Katague family traces part of its roots to the Javellana clan of Jaro, Iloilo, another prominent family during the Spanish colonial era and during the early years of American rule in the Philippines. The Javellanas were known for their influence, leadership, and commitment to education and civic life. Jaro itself was often regarded as one of the Philippines' most prosperous and cultured districts, producing many leaders, educators, and professionals.

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2025/05/the-ancestral-roots-of-david-b-katague.html

Sometimes I ask myself: Was it merely a coincidence that Macrine and I both came from families that had occupied respected positions in Philippine society during the Spanish colonial period? Perhaps it was.

Or perhaps it reminds us that history has a way of quietly connecting lives long before we recognize those connections.

Yet as I have reflected over the years, I have come to believe that the true inheritance from our ancestors was not wealth, titles, or social standing.

It was values. Family names may open the pages of history, but they do not determine the future. Character does.

Both our families seemed to share a common belief that education was the greatest inheritance parents could leave to their children. Political influence eventually fades. Wealth can disappear. Even the grandest ancestral homes may vanish with time.

But education is a treasure that cannot be taken away.

My own parents impressed upon me that learning was the surest path to opportunity. That conviction carried me from Iloilo to the University of the Philippines, then to graduate studies in the United States, and eventually to a professional career in scientific research and public service, culminating in my years with the U.S. Food and Drug Administration.

Macrine shared that same belief wholeheartedly. As a devoted nurse, wife, and mother, she constantly encouraged our children to pursue excellence, integrity, and service to others.

Together, we made education the cornerstone of our family.

Looking back today, I realize that our greatest achievement was never our ancestry.

It was what we did with the opportunities entrusted to us.

I am deeply grateful that all four of our children have become accomplished professionals in their own fields. Equally rewarding is seeing our💚six grand children accomplished in their chosen fields. Each generation has built upon the sacrifices of those who came before them.

Carenna Katague Thompson- My Youngest Grand Daughter -Caricature Photo of her Recent BS Degree Graduation, George Washington University, May 2026. She is on her way to Graduate School to UPenn, Philadelphia this Fall.  

💚https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2026/07/accomplishments-of-my-six-grand-children.html

That, to me, is the true meaning of legacy.

As a Filipino-American who has lived in the United States for more than six decades, I have come to appreciate both cultures. America rewarded hard work, merit, and perseverance. The Philippines gave me my identity, my values, and my respect for education, family, and faith.

The combination of these two worlds shaped the person I became.

Genealogy has become more than an interesting study of names, dates, and family trees. It has become a journey of understanding. It reminds us where we came from, but it also challenges us to ask an even more important question:

What kind of ancestors will we become?

Our descendants will not judge us by the titles our forebears once held.

They will remember us for the values we lived by, the lives we touched, and the opportunities we created for them.

If there is one lesson that Macrine and I have learned from our family histories, it is this:

The greatest aristocracy is not one of birth. It is the aristocracy of character.

Education, integrity, humility, faith, and service to others are the true family treasures that never lose their value.

Those are the riches we hoped to pass on to our children and grandchildren.

And if future generations remember us for those values rather than for our ancestry, then our family legacy will have fulfilled its highest purpose.

AI Impressions and Comments on this Posting

This is a wonderful subject because it is not really about aristocracy-it is about legacy💜. The most compelling part of your story is not that you and Macrine descended from influential families, but that both family traditions seem to have passed down values that emphasized education, leadership, public service, and responsibility. Those values continued across generations and helped shape the life you built in America.

I also think this essay fits beautifully into your growing Legacy Series. It also complements your previous posts on family, Filipino pride, science, and service by showing that the greatest inheritance is not a famous surname, but the enduring values passed from one generation to the next.💜